Anna Whitehouse: ‘Who gets to tell you to pipe down?’

“Everyone’s heard of the Famous Five, right, but no one really talks about the Adventurous Four. My dad got me into them because he wanted to pioneer at the time – bear in mind this was the 80s – that little girls can get messy and dirty and muddy. He really encouraged me to get my hands dirty and be a girl in a way that felt right on my terms. And I think this is really anchored within this book.”

“I felt seen … I had postnatal depression, and I was so highly functioning that no one could see it. Sorrow and Bliss encapsulates that complexity, not just in women, but in the human spirit, where we are sad and we are happy, and they can live side by side.”

“There was a chapter in the book that hit really hard, and I couldn’t stop sobbing … I thought she wrote beautifully, openly, bravely. And she put down in writing what I’m trying to do across the board, which is stop pushing women out, but also stop pushing women forward in that vulnerable [postnatal] period of a woman’s life.”

“I wanted to read a book that centred female pleasure … I interviewed an octogenarian sex booker, and she had read the book as well. And she said that it made her so happy to see and read the true grittiness of sex, whether it’s extramarital affairs or whether it’s voyeurism – the things we never talk about.”

“My relationship with my sister is the most important female relationship I have … [This book] is about that sisterly love – of wanting to kill each other but loving each other deeply. It showed the dark depths of sisterly love.”